New year Resolutions

Some thoughts about new year resolutions and why every day can be the start of a new year

Are you feeling anxious about the new year?   Not sure what you can do differently?  The resolutions you made last year lasted two weeks and then you reverted back to the same old way of doing things.  You have great expectations that this year will be fabulous but know deep down that if you do the same as last year you can expect the same results.  This expectation, together with a desire for things to be better is making you feel overwhelmed, depressed and anxious.  You have set yourself up for failure even before you have started.

One of the biggest reasons for failure to achieve our goals is ambivalence.  At some level, it is easier for us to stay in our fixed negative mindsets than to make the changes that we know will change our lives.  We have bought into self-indulgence.  We buy into the "I will be happy when" mindset which gives the responsibility to something else or someone else to make us happy.

The truth is there is nothing you need to do, become or wait for in order to be happy right here and right now  let me repeat that There is nothing you need to do, become or wait for in order to be happy right here and right now.

Celebrate the new year not by making a resolution you know your not going to keep, but by making the decision that you're not going to wait to claim your birthright.  Stop waiting for the change in the calendar to make changes.  If something is worth doing it is worth doing NOW!

Don't get me wrong, New years can be a valuable opportunity to reflect on what we achieved and to set goals and targets for our lives and if this is the only time we take to plan our lives then I  fully support it.  if however, we are waiting for the new year then we run the risk of setting ourselves up for failure.  I believe that manifesting our perfect life is something we should be doing every day.  Every day is the start of a new opportunity, a new future a new you.

Wishing you all a happy New You!

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